Mary suffered personal tragedies: two sons, Eddie and Willie, died young (Willie of typhoid in 1862). As First Lady during the Civil War she faced criticism over White House spending and divided loyalties. She was sitting beside Abraham when he was shot at Ford’s Theatre on April 14, 1865, and did not attend his funeral. In later years she faced financial trouble and declining mental health; in 1875 her son Robert pursued a trial to have her institutionalized, she spent months in a facility, was released to her sister, fled to France to avoid another confinement, returned and died July 16, 1882.
Oh, Mary! blends farce with echoes of real sorrow, offering a liberated and exaggerated portrait that courts controversy while reviving interest in a complex historical figure.